November 4, 2018: A Curious Wandering
“Leaving what feels secure behind and following the beckoning of our hearts doesn’t always end as we expect or hope. We may even fail. But here’s the payoff: it can also be amazing and wonderful and immensely satisfying.” ― Steve Goodier
This week’s blog is in response to a question I am frequently asked at shows:
How did I become a jewelry artist?
If you had told me eleven years ago that one day I would be a jewelry artist, I wouldn’t have believed you. I had never even thought about creating jewelry. I didn’t see my self as a creative artist in this field. I loved the process of gardening from the initial stage of designing flower beds to the satisfaction gained when harvesting and arranging beautiful flowers. I had also been exploring water colors, sketching, and photography, but jewelry was not even on my radar. I was teaching full time and still had one child at home.
So how did I get into the business of making jewelry?
Eleven years ago, in September, my eldest daughter Kate, was getting married. I had found the mother of the bride dress, but needed to find the “perfect” jewelry to wear with it on such a special day. It turned out to be an exercise in futility. I wasn’t sure what this jewelry was, but knew “I would know when I saw it”. A week before the wedding, I returned again to a local jewelry store, dress in hand, and once again couldn’t find what I wanted. But attached to this store, was a new smaller one in which there were shelves of beading supplies. Curious, I wandered in and was instantly captivated by the sparkling array of colors, shapes, and textures. I was intrigued by the idea of design possibilities. An invitation by the sales clerk resulted in sitting at a table and “playing” with materials which eventually ended up in a beautiful bracelet, the design of which had apparently been hidden in my mind.
It was such an enjoyable experience, that I returned a week later, and the week after that, until it became a habit. I found creating jewelry to be a great stress reliever from the pressures of teaching. I searched for other beading stores and took classes to learn the art of beadwork using needles and thread. I was fortunate to learn from and be inspired by some extraordinary teachers who were incredible artists as well. It was both a challenge and exciting to learn something new each week. I began collecting beads, idea books, patterns and materials which could possibly be turned into jewelry. I discovered I was incorporating many of the same design tips of gardening into the designs of jewelry, with color, shape, texture, and patterns. Only this time, I didn’t have to wait weeks or months to see a result. In New England, the growing season is short lived. My jewelry lasted all year long.
After a few months, colleagues and friends began to ask me to make them jewelry, for gifts and for themselves. My first show, was the following summer, at a local event in a small town in Maine on a 2 by 8 foot table. This is where my journey as a selling artist began in earnest. It was a road I had never imagined. I thought I would be teaching in a job I loved until my 70’s. But six years ago, I took a leap of faith and left to pursue a dream. My husband Ron, as I’ve written before, is now actively involved in the whole jewelry process from designs to show times. We now participate in 16 shows a year, including two shows in our home featuring 10+ other artists.
So the answer to how I became involved in this artistic business is two-fold. My daughter’s wedding and a wandering, born of curiosity, out of one store, into another. These were actually the catalysts for the change that has impacted my world and led to this life I am grateful for, as a jewelry artist.
JenNovember 4, 2018
Love this story! How awesome that your daughter’s wedding was the inspiration to create personal, custom jewelry! Your passion for family and all of life’s special moments shine through your work! 🙂
WendyNovember 4, 2018
Thank you so much Jennifer for writing your thoughts and for recognizing what is important to me as an artist. Our lives are such gifts, and there is so much beauty and wonder around us. With all the crazy chaos that we feel and see in this busy world of ours, we all need reminders to look for treasures that surround us.
Anita BoutilierNovember 4, 2018
What a great story, it’s even better having your husband included in this change . You both do great work, keep it going!
WendyNovember 4, 2018
Thank you so much Anita for your thoughts. I wrote about Ron’s journey as a late blooming artist, in a blog on August 12, The Paths We Choose. It is a road we share together, and it has been a gift to have this time traveling together.
Maureen GreeneNovember 4, 2018
What a wonderful story….you found your dream. Teaching led you in another direction, which I’m sure evokes passion! You should be proud of the courage it took for you to leave a secure job, and embark on a new rewarding career! Congrats on fulfilling our dream!
WendyNovember 4, 2018
Thank you so much Maureen. Teaching was a passion for me and for many years I loved what I did….just as I love what we do now. It did take a lot of courage…..and it was scary, but I’m so happy I varied off the path of certainty..
WendyNovember 27, 2018
Hi Maureen,
Thank you for taking the time to read and respond to my blog. It did take courage, a lot in fact! But it was what I needed to do to be healthy in all domains. Ron’s journey as a jewelry artist has a similar parallel. We keep telling each other as long as we still are loving what we do, we’ll continue on this path. And so far, we’re loving it!
RebekahNovember 4, 2018
Beautiful story, you are an inspiration
WendyNovember 4, 2018
Thank you so much. It was really scary to leave a secure position, but I had to listen to my heart and my body……so much stress was having its impact.